Supervisor Foundations · Lesson 6.9
RESOLVE WHAT CAN BE RESOLVED
Not every conflict needs to become a major disciplinary matter.
Some everyday problems can be resolved through:
- clarifying roles
- correcting misunderstandings
- agreeing on communication
- changing a process
- setting boundaries
- documenting expectations
- arranging follow-up
The goal is not always:
“Who wins?”
Sometimes the better question is:
“What needs to change so the work can continue professionally?”
Poor
“You two figure it out yourselves. I don’t want to be involved.”
Better
“Let’s identify the specific issue, agree on the workplace expectation and decide what each person needs to do differently.”
WORKPLACE EXAMPLES
EXAMPLE 1
Two employees argue over shared equipment.
BETTER RESPONSE
EXAMPLE 2
One employee believes another ignores messages.
BETTER RESPONSE
EXAMPLE 3
Two staff members have very different working styles.
BETTER RESPONSE
EXAMPLE 4
A conflict includes repeated threats and intimidation.
BETTER RESPONSE
Remember
Coworkers do not have to become friends.
They do need to behave professionally.
Workplace action
For a current conflict, ask: What specific change would allow the work relationship to function better?
Quick Check
What is often the best goal in ordinary workplace conflict?