Supervisor Foundations · Lesson 4.9
REPAIR DAMAGE AFTER A POORLY HANDLED CORRECTION
Supervisors make mistakes too.
A supervisor may:
- react too quickly
- accuse before checking facts
- raise their voice
- correct someone publicly when privacy was possible
- use inappropriate language
- misunderstand what happened
Being the supervisor does not make the mistake disappear.
Repair may require acknowledging it.
Poor
“I am the supervisor. I do not need to apologize.”
Better
“I handled that conversation poorly. I corrected you publicly before I had all the information. That was not appropriate. The performance issue still needs to be discussed, but I should have handled the conversation differently.”
Notice something important:
Apologizing for HOW the correction was handled does not necessarily remove the underlying accountability issue.
Both can be true.
WORKPLACE EXAMPLES
EXAMPLE 1
A supervisor blames an employee for an error and later discovers another department caused it.
BETTER RESPONSE
EXAMPLE 2
A manager raises their voice during a legitimate performance conversation.
BETTER RESPONSE
EXAMPLE 3
A supervisor discusses confidential performance information where coworkers can hear.
BETTER RESPONSE
EXAMPLE 4
A supervisor gives an incorrect instruction and later criticizes the employee for following it.
BETTER RESPONSE
Remember
Authority does not remove responsibility for your own behavior.
Workplace action
Practice: “I was wrong about ______.” “I should have handled ______ differently.” “The remaining issue we still need to address is ______.”
Quick Check
A supervisor publicly accuses an employee and later discovers the accusation was wrong. What should the supervisor do?